dribs and drabs learning journey about My Amazing Girl....

Not all kids have positive thinking... Not all parents have positive thinking too Parent will influence on how your child and You are a mirror of who she is. Self-esteem influences all aspects of their lives. How to train child to be more self-esteem ? all the parents wanted to find out more.. Helping your child grow up with strong self-esteem is the most important task of parenthood. I have a few of parenting Tips would like to share.. Self-esteem = Self confidence 1)Smiles and hugs - let them feels the love from you. 2)Compliment, praise and encourage- let them feels good about themselves. 3)Never give up of your child. 4)when them are falling down ask them dust themselves and gave up by themselves. 5)Let them do their own thing then ask them to explain it to you 6)Kids have their own thinking and world. Listen to them. 7)Tell them "you can do it" 8)Tell them " Try it again" Is OK that not successful on the first or Second chance or even more trying. 9)A lot of pa...

Recently I have a question on "how to choose the books for Sabrina to read ?" which type ? documentaries or story books ? Today, Sabrina has read a book " How Do Birds Fly ?" A page show " Bird The perfect body" The digestive system of a bird.Food helps a bird get the energy it needs to soar through the sky. Yes, I like Sabrina read these type of books,I think She will get more knowledge from books if she could read the detail of the books. A sentences " After a bird breaks down food in its stomach and gizzard the thick, soupy paste enters a narrow, twisting tube called the small intestine . Then nutrients from the food move into the blood and travel to cells all over the body. I find that Sabrina could enjoyed the books. Maybe now I need to borrow informations book for her to read.

Today, Daddy was scolding Sabrina during bathing time. Is because of she is keep pulling daddy shirt while daddy is doing something on the basin. End up dont know how Sabrina got a cut on her tongue. We are quite worry about it. The problem is She is don't know how to "wait", for her turn ? She is ofter get hurt when she is rushing here and there. When you are asking her to get something from the room, she also run to the room. she also don't know how to walk properly, tell her do not run in the house. one minute she forgot again. When we are talking, she also want to talk and yet she just disturb our conversation. Today, I was telling her she need to learn how to "Wait" in life. Wait is important in our life. We need to wait for our food We need to Q for blessing in church. Need to wait for mummy to finished e house work then can attend to her. When during daddy mummy conversation, she need to wait for her turn. We need to wait for traffic light to turn gre...

Sabrina always complained her leg pain at night that happened quite ofter. Same as today,Leg pain always attack at middle of the night like 2/3am,sometimes she will just tell me her legs is pain want me to massage but sometimes pain till she cry very loud. She can't fall a sleep because her leg is in pain. she don want daddy , she only want mummy. she said daddy hand very rough not comfortable. The questions: Is this a grown up pain ? or muscles pain ? Is she does too much exercise during the day ? or leg cramps ? a lot of question is in my mind, should I bring her to see doctor ? But during the day, she is just nothing happen she can jump and run and play... Can anyone tell me ?

Today, I am at Cheng San library with Sabrina. I had read the book called "Chasing Children" There are 10 Principles for chasing idea ..which i think is very good. 1)Show your children that you love them and their idea. 2)Built their self-respect,self-esteem and self-confidence. 3)Expect great ideas. 4)Be perceptive and aware. 5)Let your children copy what you model. 6)Make your children aware of the magic and nuance of words. 7)Make it fun and play with ideas. 8)Listen Actively 9)Ask open questions 10)Stories are important.

Mummy Thoughts As mummy very sad to find out that my little girl need to wear a spectacles soon. and her degree also very high as she only 4+. 近视 R 200x100 L 250x50.On Friday we go and made her first spectacles in Rivervale Plaza. Now our whole family members are all wearing spectacles. Haiz

Sabrina has complain about her legs very pain in the middle of the night. and she want me massange and pacifier her. sometimes take me about a hour to cool her down. In beginning i thought she has telling lies. now i believe she is really in pain. I begin to worries about the pain. because of no fever or sick i don wish to bring her to see doc. so today i have did internet search.. Happened to find out about "Leg Pain and Growing Pain in children" A. This is a prime age when children begin to have growing pains, so that may be the cause, especially since he hasn't been sick and hasn't had a fever. Children with growing pains typically have pain in their legs either late in the day or in the middle of the night. They can be particularly bad after a day of intense physical activity, but it really isn't known what causes them. Other factors that can point to growing pains as a cause for a child's leg pain include that massaging the area helps, whereas if there wa...

She is my little helper at home. Sabrina always offer her help to me. 1) When mummy forgot to bring towel to bath room, she help me gave one from carbinet. 2) She help me to mop and clean kitchen. 3) She gave me a glass a water when mummy cough.(with daddy help) 4) She will keep her own toys, after finished playing. 5) She will put her own dirty clothes to pill. 6) She will massange mummy, when mummy feel tired. When our house reflooring had completed. She help mummy mopping the floor and cleaning the wall.

Surprise! she has says her prayer loudly during Mass service on this Sunday. her pray as follows:- " Thank you lord for everything, thank you the sunflower, rivers , sea and birds we have and also thank you for the daddy and mummy that I have". When I and my husband hear this we feel a warm feeling travel through in my heart and after that daddy ware asking whether did I teaches her to say that or not . My answer is "NO" A couple sitting beside us,, says She is so cute.. means the pray to god We hoping she will continual faith to God.

On 23 Sep has brought Sabrina go for 4 Year Old assessment check, one thing I very worries about "eyes sight". Sabrina unable read out the number to nurse.oh No...She say She can't see the numbers. As mother i have never think about this problem before... she has poor eyes sight. I was telling her from today onward no TV and computer games. But surprised me she has never made a big fuss. She agree. from 23 Sep until today 8 Nov she has never been requite for TV. lucky me.. if not i don know how to says No. Basically, everyday she will do the same things at home. Monday- Friday (because of no TV she has a lot of time to spare) 7.15am wakeup 7.20am Milk 7.50am reached school (St Anne's Church) 8.00-11.00 at School (Only thurday 11.00 - 12.00pm English speech and drama) 11.10am back to home 11.45am Lunch (while eating she will reads at the same time, I know is bad but no choice because she got nothing to do, as normally she is watching TV during meal time) or someti...

She can dance at anytime and anywhere. when she is going shopping with mummy over heard music only she will just starting to dance. I think she really enjoyed the music. As a mummy , I happy to see my child like music and active in many way. I would thinking let her learn piano when she reach 5 Year Old, But still need to consider about our family financially situation at that time. She also self composs the song, maybe you will think the song is silly. but as a 4 year old kid. not easy for her to think a sentence and words straight away.